SIMPLE LIFE

You can't control the things that happen to you but you can control how you react to them :) Sounds like a very cliched quote right ?


I know. Tell me about it. I've been so caught up with all that's going on around me focusing mostly on the negative, that I have forgotten how to bhilosophy) :)
e positive, think positive and act positive. And I hate that side of me. But, I met a certain someone today, and he would prefer to be known simply as Dr.G ( PhD in Human P
And, he has agreed to give me a quote for living life, in a simple manner :) And I, in turn am going to upload his quotes, whenever he decides to grace my phone with his philosophical grace and presence :)


Quote 1 :


Date : 12 July 2011
Time : Confidential
Circumstances under which the message was received : Hehe. I was eating Roti Bakar with Nescafe Tarik :p Mmmmmmmm. Yummy :)


Basically, I was moping about something which I really wanted, and took a toll on me for the worse. And Dr.G, being the intellectual genius that he is, gave me a saying :) And it made me feel a lot better.


Ready for it ? Here comesssss !!


A for Apple, B for Ball...That is life.


The inner meaning : A for apple, and B for ball, is the simplest thing you learn in the English  Alphabet. Apply that simplicity to life, and life will be beautiful. Live life, simply :)


COURTESY OF DR.G :)

Who are we to judge the higher truth, when we ourselves can't handle it ?

Everything happens for a reason. At least that's what I've been told whilst I was growing up. And I'm willing to bet that 99.99 percent of you who's reading this, have heard that cliched line over and over, most probably when you were droning and wallowing in self-pity about something that has literally caused you to remain indignant. But then you ask yourself, is there really a reason for things that take place in your life ? A higher purpose ? A missing piece to the puzzle ? How do you handle the things that happen to you with poise and dignity?


Basically, that particular line " Everything happens for a reason" is a way of pacifying ourselves in times where you know that even the best psychologist will not be able to talk you out of the self-loathing and pity you have for yourself. But what if everything does happen for a reason? What if everything that takes place in your life, whether for better or for worse, is pre-planned and set to fall into place at all the exact times of your life in order for you to learn something, to heal, to emotionally transform and to experience the goodness of all that is around you?


A lot of us can't handle the truth and ingenuous facts that are laid out in front of us simply because we are human. You may think that I've been criticizing humans a lot recently but the truth is I'm just being plain straightforward. Like I said. We can't handle the truth most of the time. We prefer fabricating the truth to fit our perception, our liking and our personal inclination towards the things that matter to us the most. In other words, we see what we want to see and we hear what we want to hear. And most of us, excluding the atheists, blame the Higher Force for all of the things that go wrong in our lives. But what if there is something better waiting for us at the end of the line ?


My epiphany fit faith into the equation, because I've been questioning faith my whole life and am yet to get a sign telling me, faith is inside you and even if that sign comes, I would probably still question faith thinking that it's just a voice inside my head playing scrabble with my brains. Because in truth, I tend to believe in what I want to believe in. I see truth in what I want to see truth in. So yes, I fit faith into the equation when I question myself, "How do I make decisions today, without knowing what may or may not happen tomorrow. Isn't it a risk?".


There was this one quote I read, from somewhere, I can't remember where, but it sounded like this. "Tell a man that there are 300 billion stars in the Universe and he'll believe you. But tell him there is wet paint on a bench and he will have to touch it just to be sure." You see? We believe the most outrageous things on earth, but simple facts, like wet paint, we find it hard to digest. To the question I asked previously, about making decisions? Yes. It is a risk. It's a risk I'm willing to take, because, FAITH is knowing you will be taught to fly, when you are teetering at the edge. I am teetering at the edge, but now, I know I'll be given wings to fly.


Back to my epiphany. We know we can't handle the truth. So who are we to judge the HIGHER TRUTH, of the occurrences in our lives, when we ourselves can't handle it? Shouldn't we just leave things be ? Why put our nose into something we can't handle? Isn't it easier to just surrender and let things take place? Force sets things into motion. That's the fundamental rule of physics.


Force yourself to surrender, and things might turn out your way after all.  

MY POOR BLOG... :D

At last, here I am back to my blog... LOL... Im so sorry my bloggie, missed you so much hunny pie.. Its been quite a while, hmmm actually a long time i reckon... IM SO SO SORRRYYYY... <3 I dont wan to make any excuse but seriously I had no time.. As i said earlier, i hardly adapt myself to changes, so yeah, i was adapting myself to this new environment of me in. After dis, I'll try my best to keep u up, make u up and cheer u up okay LOL.. Nuts am I? Hahaha.. Cheers folk..

Jar Of Hearts... - Christina Perri

This song is so amazing.. Beyond words could describe.. It explains my situation.. U know sometimes certain song's lyrics just fit perfectly into your shoes. Just when you are out of words to explain your state, a song will just sing it out for u...Might not be exact but it  reassemble some of your feelings, right...

I  know I can't take one more step towards you
Cause all that's waiting is regret
And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore 
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul

So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are

And it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are
Running 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?

Its Baby Time!!!

After some tired session, this cute fella slept off drinking milk.. 

He is too ADORABLE TO BE TRUE!

Not forgetting, he loves taking picture, but he never want to smile... The only way to stop his shrieking crying sound is CHEESEEE, SNAP!.. ADORABLE KAN KAN KAN..

The Four Letter Word...

 

I always thought four letter words were banned

But i know of one that makes life beautiful.

It works its wonders in mysterious ways,

And I think cupid's struck this hopeful,

Since I set my eyes on you...

And how much more can I portray to show that this is true.

My life is like candle in your hands to light your life.

When you are afraid of the darkness and blow it off when you are safe..

This candle will always light your way until it cannot strive,

I don't know how to explain this pain,

Its driving me crazy not being able to let it out

I think I'll go insane

You are special to me in so many different ways

I don't know exactly what sets you apart from the rest

but you've stolen my heart straight from my chest

It was locked with a key opened only by me

cause I didn't want to let anyone else in

but I opened it to you and let you in

and again over my mind my heart wins.

A feeling this strong can't be ignored

My heart has been whispering.........have you heard?

I would like to dedicate this poem to all those peeps indulging deeply in LOVE... 
Stay happy sweethearts... 
Love EVER, Hurt NEVER...  Cheers!

I'M NOT PERFECT.....

I will never be the perfect BOY. The one with the perfect hair that looks untouched no matter how many times he moves.


I will never be able to wear white without getting it dirty.

My jeans will always be a little crumpled.

My shoes will always have a little grime.

I will never eat silently. I will somehow end up talking when there’s food in my mouth. In fact, I doubt I’d ever stop talking.

My room will always be in a mess.

My bag will always be a dump.



I will always use the wrong words and the wrong times.

I will never be the one to hold my peace at the right time. I will always say what I feel like I need to. Of course, I will always feel like smacking myself silly the next day for not holding my peace.

I will always have ugly feet and terrible toenails.

I will never stop falling down accidentally.

I will never stop laughing out too loud.

I do drop things and sometimes they break.

I will always dance like there’s no tomorrow. I will always overwork myself. I will never stop saying Yes. i will always bark and fight at the slightest thing.

I will never learn to stop getting hurt.

I will end up missing all those person i never expect to miss in my life.

I will be friggin angry with a person, n when they ask sorry from me, i will end up melting n saying "nah, its ok, i never thought that way"..  *whacking my head*


My closet will end up like a mountain of clothes even after my mum tidy it up for me every week.. I wonder why mum never give up... 


I do fall for sweet strangers.. ahhh


I will always get my hair spoiled at any hairdresser. freak that...

I will always think of a person who doesn't even think of me. I know...

This is me, now and this is me always. I will never stop loving myself, now and forever. I may not be perfect, but I am definitely real.

LAYERS....

L A Y E R S.

Have you ever wondered what happened to the person you knew 10 years ago and realized how much they've changed ? How much time has changed both of you ? Or have you ever wondered what happened to the "old you" as opposed to the "new you", where in case point the old you used to be so much more happier, so much more optimistic, so much more daring? And the new you, for that matter is completely on the other end of the world, and you realize, that somehow, somewhere along life's path, you've even lost track of who you are.

There is a fine line between who you are and who you want to be. We all want to be the person everyone else is comfortable with, the life and soul of the party. But the question is, are WE comfortable with who we might or might not have become ? Technically, all of us are practically buried within ourselves. By layers. Yes, you read me right. Layers. Layers of hurt, frustration, depression, anger, boredom and defense. We're so layered by everything we do that we're buried underneath those layers. Think about it, not only are we layered by our emotions, we're also layering each and everything that we do. When was the last time you concentrated on the one thing you're doing instead of doing two things at the same time ?

"The tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die within us while we still live"

By living amidst all the layers we have buried ourselves under, we're only making it harder for "us" to find ourselves. You find yourself wallowing in resentment and self-pity and lashing out when you don't even know what got you pissed off in the first place. We hang on to all the layers we have built under our defense and shut ourselves off completely from getting hurt. There's the catch. Sure, you can shut yourself out from the cold, cruel world and salvage what's left of your petty emotions and keep from getting hurt. But if you keep out the dark, you're also keeping out the light. You can't have one without the other. That's balancing. Enjoy the happiness, that flows into your life, without suspicion. Enjoy letting people keep you happy, compliment you without suspicion. See things the way they are. Don't analyze.

I realized how layered I have become when I looked back and saw how much the world had changed, to my view, that is. And that's when I remembered, that the world is just your mirror. When we define someone, judge someone, in truth, we're only defining and judging ourselves.

A Moment Has Gone By...

We all grow up,
as sitting together with the brothers watching a disney movie becomes a memory laden with the background music of popeye the sailor man.
leaving the carefree days of childhood innocence and of thinking your parents are the most perfect people in the world.
we wonder whats come of our friends from primary school days.
who they've grown into; married and had children to?
we remember the tears we shed when our first grandparent died, or if not, the first death experienced,
and of our parents explaining how all life has to eventually come to an end.
you cry some more thinking of losing more family, wishing life was immortal.
the first death always brings with it, this eternal fear of death.

Now you look at where you stand?
Who's around you? do you see your youngself in the eyes of your kids?
surely you've experienced the pang of goodbyes, of heartaches,
experienced the brutality of society..even family,
as people grow into the persons they are today and lifes many dissenting opinions bare down on us.
have you ever wondered what happened to all those years in between? a decade has gone by. maybe two. are u living off of just memories or are you building upon those that precede the present day?
they say blood is thicker than water, i dont know why they compare family to friends? my friends are like a thick mixture of syrup.
take a moment to remember the journey you've been on!